Saturday, July 19, 2008
Softball Games
How many of you have played a team sport?? Well today I played softball with a bunch of motivated people and let me tell you men or so competitive. I mean I just like to have a good time but oooh no don't lose with guys on your team and its over!! So you know me and my motivated self I just went out there like I was the best player ever and struck out and got all my balls caught but the moral of the story is I had fun. For the first time everyone is not doing there own thing but actually coming together to play team sports. I must say its funny watching group dynamics and to see how people flock to what is familiar. Well today was different I actually got to work with different people and be myself. It was fun. So I ask you this do are you truly a team player or in the end you just want to win the game by any means necessary???????
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It's not that you want to win by any means necessary it just that some people are very competitive and that competitive nature takes over. We really dont mean for it to take over but it does. That is not an excuse however for those who cheat and all that other stuff :-)
girl it's good to see you with a smile on your face. i miss you. since you wont be around for my wedding, you better not miss my first born (dont worry, i'm not pregnant yet). plans are going well. september 6th will be here before i know it. keep smiling and i'll keep you posted. i love you.
i would have to say that most people need to learn to live their lives with some balance. You need to have ambition and drive which ofcourse calls for some competitve spirit at times.. BUT, you also need to have FUN.. i learned that when you love what you are doing.. and you do it well, God will provide all that you need and more.. Thats a blessing. I dont think that fun and enjoyment need to come at the cost of competition... dont let them change that about you Rob.. dont take life so seriously that you forget to have fun.. but we have to respect that for some people.. competition is fun.. thats what makes us all different.. maybe they will too understand that we dont value competion as much - Luv ya..
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